As Shonda Rhimes marks the 10th anniversary of her inspiring memoir, Year of Yes, she’s opened the floor to fans and readers with a special Q&A that delves deeply into her creative process, life lessons, and the powerful message behind saying "yes" to opportunities and challenges. Ahead of her six-city book tour kicking off in Philadelphia on October 13, 2025, Rhimes took time to connect directly with her community, answering some of their most burning questions submitted through the Shondaland newsletter.
Here’s a glimpse into what Shonda shared about her journey and the wisdom she’s gathered along the way:
Choosing the Right Projects and Talent
When asked how she selects shows and actors that consistently resonate, Rhimes emphasized intuition and authenticity. Her knack for creating compelling narratives and casting actors who embody complex characters stems from a deep understanding of storytelling and a commitment to diversity and nuance.
Advice for Aspiring Young Actresses
To 14-year-old Clara, an aspiring actress with a rich community theater background, Rhimes encouraged persistence and embracing every opportunity to sparkle, even in cameo roles. She highlighted the importance of continuing to hone craft, networking, and staying true to oneself as keys to gaining recognition.
Writing, Marketing, and Perseverance
Responding to Trisha, a prolific author struggling with marketing her books, Rhimes reminded her that passion and dedication fuel longevity. She advised continuing to write and evolve, believing that resilience often uncovers unexpected breakthroughs—even at 60 or beyond.
Sacrifices Along the Creative Path
On personal sacrifices, Rhimes candidly acknowledged the challenges that come with balancing career demands and personal life. She stressed that staying true to one’s path sometimes requires making tough choices but that the rewards of authentic storytelling make those sacrifices meaningful.
Lessons from Grey’s Anatomy
Reflecting on her groundbreaking work with Grey’s Anatomy, Rhimes described it as a masterclass in collaboration, empathy, and addressing real-life complexities through character-driven drama. She credited the show’s success to its inclusive lens and emotionally honest storytelling.
Next Creative Destinations
When asked about her ideal future project location, Rhimes expressed excitement about exploring new cultural landscapes and narratives that challenge her as a creator, showing a continual quest for growth and fresh perspectives.
Discovering One’s Passion
For Jennifer seeking clarity on her true passion, Rhimes suggested introspection combined with experimentation—saying “yes” to new experiences, allowing oneself to be vulnerable, and paying attention to what feels deeply fulfilling.
Responding to Unkindness with Grace
In addressing how to respond to unkindness based on identity, Rhimes offered insight into maintaining dignity and choosing reactions that empower rather than escalate conflict, promoting empathy and strength in the face of adversity.
This intimate exchange between Shonda Rhimes and her readers reflects the spirit of Year of Yes: embracing boldness, vulnerability, and courage. As Rhimes embarks on this celebratory book tour, her message is clear—say “yes” to life’s possibilities and watch how your world transforms.
Are you ready to say “yes” to your next challenge or dream? Join the conversation and share what you’re daring to embrace lately on Shondaland.com — your story might be featured!
For more insights and to catch Shonda Rhimes live, don’t miss the Year of Yes: 10th Anniversary Edition Book Tour. Tickets are selling fast—grab yours today and celebrate the power of “yes.”
